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You're the Best. Here Are 4 Ways to Harness This

You're the Best. Here Are 4 Ways to Harness This

How often do you ask yourself, “What can I do and how can I do it?"

Usually, I hear people say or think),

  • “How can I do {item}?
  • Oh, forget it.
  • What am I thinking?
  • I know I can’t do {item} and I don’t even know how I would go about it."

Do you see the problem with this type of thinking?


  • defeated before you start.
  • putting the brakes on before trying.
  • talking yourself out of getting going.
  • not extending an invitation to stretch, grow, and soar.


  • don’t believe in yourself.
  • think you are not capable.

Listen Bold-Thinkers, the only thing you have to think about and concentrate on when you ask, “What can I do and how can I do it?”...is doing the best you can.

Doing the best you can means:

  • Being open to the process of learning – which may require you to be a beginner.
  • Expecting some good and bad moments – because when you do the best you can, things are never perfect.
  • Staying focused on supporting yourself during the bumps and successes.
  • Telling yourself, on a consistent basis, you are capable of moving forward even when it seems impossible.

This spring, how can you apply the “best you can” strategy to what you have going on?

Grab the template here.

Kanesha Baynard

Kanesha is the founder of the Bold Living Today community focused on helping members disrupt unfulfilling patterns through creativity and navigate transition with confidence and boldness.