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Write your B.L.O.O.M. narrative for March

Write your B.L.O.O.M. narrative for March

It's March, Bold-Thnkers!

Are you ready for spring?

Are you reading to bloom?

Are you ready to declutter your thinking?

As many of you know, I am a recovering overachiever and overdoer.

When I think back to that time in my life when I was packing it all in like a competitor at a hot dog eating contest, my head starts to spin.

I flashback to the constant motion I was in, how I was breathing shallowly, but still ticking things off my list like a manic Tasmanian devil.

I was a crazy overworking fool and completely rewarded for it – externally.

Now that I’m in the bold phase of my life, I have consciously slowed down and I am enjoying going at my own pace.

This is not met without resistance.

There is this internal flare up that puts me in a mild panic when I am sipping tea, looking out the window, and having my 15 minute morning warm up.

But my journaling always helps me re-calibrate and set the right intentions.

When my “I cannot get as much done as I used to” thoughts bombard and berate me, I go through these seven steps to get my bearings:

Step 1: Collect some data

I pause and force myself to slow down so I can get a true idea of what is going on with me and around me. I note which messages, activities, or events may be feeding the “I need to be doing more” message. I usually give myself between 3-to-5 days to collect this data.

Step 2: Take a break to renew

I tuck the data away and take a break to do something that will help renew my energy. This usually involves some physical activities, spending time with people who get me, or losing myself in a good book.

Step 3: Envision what I want to do next

I find this step to be very energizing because it pushes me to get clear. Based on my data collection and the downtime I gifted to myself, I can then visualize what I want to do next. I counter the blaming messages that try to shame me for taking my time. In my journal I will typically use words and pictures to visualize what I want to be doing next and at what pace I want to be going. I give myself 1-to-2 days to do this.

Step 4: Stay open to all possibilities

After envisioning my next steps, the overachiever in me wants to power through and get it all done and taken care of. By pausing and allowing myself to focus on all possibilities, I can observe what is still causing me discomfort and figure out if I need to go back to step #1. Urgency has no place in step #4 because it does not give my inner voice enough time to talk through all possible the opportunities.

Step 5: Create my bold action plan

Action plan may sound like a big term, but I like to keep it simple. Based on the previous four steps, I write down four doable actions, share them with an accountability partner (usually my husband or a fellow coach), and then I get going.

Step 6: Work my bold action plan

I focus and then move ahead at my appropriate pace.

Here’s an example of an action plan I put together a few weeks ago.

A) Challenge/nagging thought: I am not teaching as many non-contracted workshops as I should be teaching. I’m leaving money on the table.

B) Bold action plan:

  • Take a class to get re-excited about teaching (took an online crafting class on sketching)
  • Offer to co-teach a class with someone (currently in talks for a May spa event for mothers)
  • Give myself a few weeks to develop some non-contracted workshops for quarter 2 (edupreneur and teen focus)
  • Develop a survey and send to the Bold Living Today community to get their input (coming in late March)

Step 7: Reward myself

Each time I complete a task on my bold action plan, I reward myself. The rewards can be big and small.


a massage, special chocolate bar, longer nap, pair of shoes, and a trip to the movie theater on a random Tuesday afternoon.

This is a great energy booster and an excellent way to keep my motivation high without forcing myself to over-do things.

How do you plan to declutter your thinking this spring?

How can this 7-step process support you?

Grab the template here.

Kanesha Baynard

Kanesha is the founder of the Bold Living Today community focused on helping members disrupt unfulfilling patterns through creativity and navigate transition with confidence and boldness.